Choices & dilemmas
Two Paths
For two real, balanced options: stay or leave, two jobs, move home or wait. One card defines the heart of the choice, then three cards explore each path.
When to use this spread
For two real, balanced options: stay or leave, two jobs, move home or wait. One card defines the heart of the choice, then three cards explore each path.
Why this spread
The difference between Two Paths and the Decision spread is one card, the "heart of the decision", and it is usually the one that changes the question. Many stay-or-leave dilemmas are not about the two places at all but about something the asker is looking for, and the centre card surfaces it before you compare. The three cards per path then have context.
The positions and what each one means
- 1
Heart of the decision
What is really at stake beneath the wording - 2
What draws you to path A
The real attraction of this path - 3
Challenge on path A
The cost or difficulty of this route - 4
Potential of path A
Where it may develop - 5
What draws you to path B
The real attraction of this path - 6
Challenge on path B
The cost or difficulty of this route - 7
Potential of path B
Where it may develop
What sets it apart
Versions range from five to seven cards; seven creates a clean, balanced comparison.
Example questions
Stay in this job or accept the new offer?
Move now or wait another year?
More spreads in "Choices & dilemmas"
- Known · Hidden · Action3 cardsFor a dilemma where you feel information is missing — what you already know, what lies outside your view, and what to do next.
- Option A · Option B · What Matters3 cardsA quick comparison between two clear paths. State in the question what each option represents.
- Decision / Dilemma Reading6 cardsThree cards for each option — what supports it, what it costs, and where it may lead.